aww its's not liek anyone HAS to patronize the glory hole, it's just there lol. actually i didn't even know there was one but i believe it. it's such a great bar & venue i hope u can convince your friend to go anyways. they have twink go go dancers, punk bands, something for everyone. if not the pony there's the unicorn which is a very over the top gay bar compared to pony, still fun just way more chaotic & right in the middle of the action on capital hill whereas pony if off to the side. whatever y'all do i hope it's fun, social skills are weird at a bar anyways cuz it's so damn loud it's not like there's much actual conversing anyways.